Walnut Creek Elder Law Blog

When choosing an assisted living facility for a loved one who suffers from dementia, certain things should be taken into account regarding the facility. More and more assisted living facilities can now accommodate residents with various levels of dementia. Some facilities have separate wings or dementia units. I have visited many assisted living facilities, and have many clients with loved ones in assisted living facilities. In addition, I have made personal observations about the quality of care for persons with dementia in these facilities.

Music: My wife’s mother, who is 89, has advanced Alzheimers disease, and has been in an assisted living facility for a number of years. Although she does not seem to recognize her children, she does respond very positively to music. When music is played for her, or if someone performs or sings for her, her face lights up. She smiles, and tries to sing. I have noticed this for many residents with dementia, when I have played jazz piano for them in various facilities. Also, on researching the subject, it seems that music is processed and understood through a different part of the brain, usually with positive results.   As a result, find out if the facility you are interested in arranges for music to be played or performed for the residents on a regular basis.

Religious Services: Another item to take into account, is whether the facility is consistent with your religious beliefs. If the resident and family are religious, it will be important for them to have the facility provide religious services for their loved one during all phases of dementia. When my father, who was Catholic, was in an assisted living facility,  I know that he cherished receiving communion every week.  

Behavior: Find out whether the facility will be able to accommodate your loved one during all stages of the disease process. Plan for the future, as the disease may progress and become worse. Ask the facility what behaviors would trigger them to say that they can no longer accommodate your loved one. Also, ask how they would handle the behavior of your loved one if he or she becomes aggressive, loud, or acts out. You will find out more if you are very specific.  

 Written Michael J. Young, lawyoung1@gmail.com, elder law attorney in Walnut Creek, CA. www.WalnutCreekElderLaw.com mike@WalnutCreekElderLaw.com. 1931 San Miguel Dr., Suite 220, Walnut Creek, CA 94596. 925-256-0298. Mr. Young, who also advises on Medi-Cal qualification, asset protection, nursing homes and the VA Aid & Attendance qualification, serves Contra Costa and Alameda Counties in CA, including the cities of Walnut Creek, Alamo, Danville, Concord, Brentwood, Pleasant Hill, Antioch, Clayton, etc.

In the seminars presented by Walnut Creek elder law attorney Michael J. Young, www.WalnutCreekElderLaw.com, he talks about the Veterans Affairs Aid & Attendance Improved Pension Benefit, which is paid to wartime veterans or to their surviving spouses. The program is asset and income based, as is Medi-Cal. However, the two programs have different qualification rules. The VA program is often utilized to pay for in-home care, assisted living facilities and board and care facilities. Medi-Cal is most often used to pay for skilled nursing facilities.

The VA program is “non-service connected,” which means that the disability does not necessarily result from being in the service. If you are over age 65, you are deemed to be “disabled” by the VA, and you could be eligible for the lowest amount of the benefit. If you are also housebound, you could be eligible for the next higher amount. And, if you are also in need of help with various activities of daily living, you could be eligible for the highest amount of the benefit.

 The veteran must have been discharged from the U.S. armed forces, with anything but a dishonorable discharge. Also, the veteran must have served 90 days continuously in the military, one day of which had to be during a war time. The periods of war are as follows:

•  WWI: April 6, 1917 through November 11, 1918
• WWII: December 7, 1941 through December 31, 1946
• Korean War: June 27, 1950 through January 31, 1955
• Vietnam War: August 5, 1964 through May 7, 1975
• Persian Gulf War: August 2, 1990 and continuing

The VA application, if prepared by someone other than the veteran, must be prepared “pro bono,” that is, without charge, and by someone who is accredited by the VA. An elder law attorney who is accredited by the VA is best equipped to help you with the planning and application for the VA benefit. He would also prepare an integrated long term elder care plan for you, that would take into account all of your assets, plus the VA and Medi-Cal benefits.

 Caveat: Beware of non-attorney individuals and organizations who offer to help with the VA applications. First check to see if they are accredited by the VA, which is required by federal law.  Also know that VA applications are prepared pro bono, that is, without charge. You may be advised by an organization to gift all of your assets away in a large gift, which can create immediate eligibility for the VA program, but ineligibility for Medi-Cal for a long period of time. Medi-Cal and VA have different rules. Finally, if the person or organization who wants to help with the VA application wants to sell an annuity to you as part of the process, you most certainly should get a second opinion.

This blog is for informational purposes only and is not legal advice. You should consult an elder law attorney for your particular case, and before you proceed with any planning.

Written Michael J. Young, lawyoung1@gmail.com, elder law attorney in Walnut Creek, CA. www.WalnutCreekElderLaw.com mike@WalnutCreekElderLaw.com. 1931 San Miguel Dr., Suite 220, Walnut Creek, CA 94596. 925-256-0298. Mr. Young serves Contra Costa and Alameda Counties, including the cities of Walnut Creek, Alamo, Danville, Concord, Brentwood, Pleasant Hill, Antioch, Clayton, etc.