As an elder law attorney with many clients in assisted living facilities, I have visited many such locations. Over the years, I have discovered the important points to consider 
when choosing such a facility for someone who suffers from dementia. Dementia requires very specific considerations. So, take the following into account when selecting the facility:
Stages of Behavior
Find out whether the facility accommodates your loved one during all stages of the disease. More and more assisted living facilities offer treatment to residents with various levels of dementia. In fact, many facilities boast separate wings or dementia units. Don’t make the mistake of thinking only about today. Instead, plan for the future. Dementia typically progresses with time. Ask personnel about the behaviors that would trigger staff to say they can no longer accommodate your loved one. Also, ask how they would handle behavior such as aggression, loud speaking or talking, or acting out. Ask questions regarding other pertinent behavior issues exhibited by your loved one.
The Power of Music
My wife’s mother, who is 92, has advanced dementia disease. She has been in an assisted living facility for years. Although she does not seem to recognize her children, she intensely responds to music. When we play music or sing for her, her face lights up. She smiles and tries to sing. This is the case with many residents who have dementia. When I play jazz piano for them in various facilities, I see them respond time and again. Additionally, research shows that music is processed and understood through a different part of the brain, usually with positive results in dementia patients. You may want to figure out if the facility you are interested in arranges for music to be provided and/or performed for the residents on a regular basis.
Religious Services
Another item to take into account is whether the facility accommodates the religious needs of residents. If the prospective resident and his family remain religious, related services throughout all phases of dementia will be a priority. My Catholic father was in an assisted living facility which arranged for him to receive Communion every week. He found this very meaningful.
About Walnut Creek Elder Law in Walnut Creek, California
Michael J. Young is an experienced elder law, estate planning and asset protection planning attorney in Walnut Creek, CA. Mr. Young advises his clients regarding their estate planning needs with an emphasis on asset protection, Medi-Cal qualification and preservation of assets for various levels of their care as they get older. His journey into elder law began when his mother suffered from an acute injury that required her to be in a skilled nursing facility. Call to schedule a consultation (925) 256-0298.